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  • June22nd

    “Bonjour!  Welcome to Beirut” I was  greeted by a tall young man with a French accent at the Beirut airport.”Let me take your bag” he insisted and carried my bag to his car.  Pancho , is my driver for a week here in Beirut — aged 22, a Germany supporter for the European Cup did this driving work as a part time (He studied Physics he said — I asked him the next day if he’s still studying after seing a PCB at the back of his car . And suggested he should read Feynman books — ” Quantum Mechanics ? “he asked . I stopped  the conversation there  avoiding the details — Hey! I don’t want to mess around with a student of Physics  though I had a book about Tesla in my bag . ;)

    He drove the car to Hamra Street and we were lost for 30 minutes before finding our way to the Marble Tower around 12 midnight on that Sunday. The Hamra St.  a one way street like most of the road here, is a popular road in Beirut and the area around it is full with restaurants , bars , apartment and hotel.  At certain area there were road blocks with military people – I told Pancho that Lebanese army are friendly and more human than .. hmm you know :)

    My official transport -- our driver Pancho is the coolest driver ever :) Notice the German flag --its European Cup madness in Beirut

    [OK the day had finally come and I can't give any valid reasons for not accepting this trip to Beirut, not that I am avoiding this place as I said before -- being abroad alone without the family is not a fun thing to do--I missed my kids ;) I left Riyadh on 15th June after got the visa (though I could get it on arrival at the Beirut-- but I hate the hassle explaining to the immigration if there were problems) ]

    First day, was a tough day to me — I was given a list of tasks to do completed a few but went into some problems that caused me to stayed up until 3am at customer’s place! Thank Allah problem was resolved a day later (man I told my colleague I will always remember my first day there!)

    Me infront of the mosque

    Beirut is only the 3rd Arab city that I had visited after Dubai – French is widely spoken here, indeed they greeted with “Bonjour” and said “Merci” instead of Shukran as a way of say “Thank You”. The Lebanese  had French as their 2nd language and taught widely at school — I always amazed with people who can speak multi-languages. My friend Pancho, spoke fluent Arabic, English,French,Spanish and German too :) He asked me do I speak Arabic ? — considering that I have been living in Saudi for almost 2 years . Not much I said — though I can read Quran , conversational Arabic is not something that being practised –and the fact that we were taught classic Arabic — I bet that he would laugh if I  said “Kaifa Haluka!” to him  and he burst into laughter and agreed that he last heard of that  phrase perhaps from his Arabic class ages ago !  People greet with Keefak here in Lebanon [ Keef Halak in Saudi!]

  • June14th

  • June13th

    Stop! Don’t make assumptions yet, I have a 32 inch LCD TV at home and some torrents in progress in this PC but I also knew that TV did more harm than good to me and my children. It has been a topic of interest to me recently that I ordered a book about it from Amazon. .

    Its not easy . According to Paul Graham

    Distraction is not a static obstacle that you avoid like you might avoid a rock in the road. Distraction seeks you out.

    and

    And technology is continually being refined to produce more and more desirable things. Which means that as we learn to avoid one class of distractions, new ones constantly appear, like drug-resistant bacteria.

    Bacteria? Tell me about it -passing by the game store on my way back from solah at the office everyday — made me think that I need Archos 605 badly !

    Ummi asked me recently if watching TV is haram? . So as usual I would changed the topic and said hmm.. where did you got this idea from? I am no expert in this area to say about halal and haram but the idea of TV is bad for us is nothing new to me indeed I think to most us
    As parents sometimes, we used TV as a replacement or excuse for us to get the children occupied.

    Jaja! Pi tengok TV lah abah got work to do!

    It happened so many times that I don’t feel bad about it (OK until now) and if you see my huge collection of DVDs — maybe you can imagine how serious I am in this “time wasted” profession. Can you teach your children just by letting them watch Sesame Street? No — according to Neil Postman TV only provides passive information transfer without 2 way-interactions and do you realize that most of children’s program today are a series of commercial that make you buy things! (Ernie puppets, Barnie , telletubies .. anyone ?!) — even worse if you’re fan Oprah — I told my wife recently that watching Oprah just made her felt insecure and worse making her started buying things advertise in the programme! I don’t like Dr. Phil too;)


    Hey, Mom and Dad! Do you know…?

    According to the American Academy of Pediatrics:

    • The average child watches 3 hours of TV a day — 2 hours of quality programming is the maximum recommended by the Academy.
    • Active play time is needed to develop mental, physical and social skills.
    • Children who watch violence on TV are more likely to display aggressive behavior.
    • Young children don’t know the difference between programs and commercials.

    Sources http://www.aap.org/family/smarttv.htm

    Back to the topic of distractions, it is not just about TV anymore – almost all media surrounding us has become an entertainment device. The mobile phone, the computer ,the internet can be one too– I could spent hours doing “nothing” infront of a PC on a weekend morning just to notice that its already time for Zuhr prayer . [Not to mention hours fixing the wireless connection or even waiting for the antivirus completed their scanning].There goes my valuable Thursday! (I live in KSA where Thursday and Friday are non-working days or weekend!). My friend used to say that time moving fast nowadays — where did the time go ? You’ll suddenly notice that is already mid-year 2008 but it felt that New Year Eve was just passing by yesterday! [Later we came to agreement about the wasted time on the computer! ]

    So will I disconnecting my TV? Our satellite TV decoder was dead 2 days ago, a hard reset didn’t work and also my son complaint that the TV in his room was not working anymore. I think its a sign ..?

    p/s Do read this article about your children and TV.

    MIND CONTROL?